Modest Monday – First Edition

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I want to start my first Modest Monday by stating that these are MY beliefs. If you don’t agree with them, it’s completely okay. I won’t make you read about them and you won’t say mean, critical things, okay? I am happy to agree to disagree and know that it’s okay to have different opinions.

All that being said, I dress modestly. I believe that I don’t need to show off every part of my body to look and feel attractive. These days it seems like you can’t turn your head without seeing every part of a woman’s body.

Please don’t get me wrong, I’m not ashamed or a prude by any means. I am a nursing student and am continually in awe of the human body. I am not ashamed or embarrassed to see a body, I have given people bed baths and never blinked an eye.

What bothers me is that people think they need to show off everything they have but are then shocked they can’t seem to find someone who will respect them. I saw this on Facebook recently and loved it.

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This jumped out at me because it rang so true. If someone is attracted to you because they can see everything there is to see, why do they need to get to know you, to respect you and care more about you than just about your body?

That’s what I want my daughter to learn. I want her to know that a man who only wants her because she’s wearing something skimpy, isn’t a man worth having. I want her to find a man that can see she respects herself enough to keep her body covered and that she’s worth so much more than bare skin. She deserves it.

Please Let’s Stop Throwing Stones

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Why do parents judge one another? Why do people without kids seem to think they know how to raise them better?

I would like to be clear about something. I have seen far too many comments disparaging the parents of the 3-month-old that was injured in the shooting in Aurora, Colorado last night. These are NOT necessarily bad parents. A 3-month-old is NOT aware of its surroundings, very likely is up at that time of night, or just plain sleeps through anything.

Gabe and I took Aiden to the drive-in multiple times when he was just a few months old. He was born in March and we went to many movies that summer. I could nurse him in the dark, I could snuggle him when he needed it, and I could lay him in his bucket seat with a bug net over it for him to snooze. Did he care when Spider-Man was losing? Or that Bumblebee was actually an alien robot? Nope. When Olivia came along she was a bit bigger when it was time for the drive-in but the only difference was that she slept in a pack n’ play instead of a bucket seat. Normally they were asleep before the first movie started and snoozed most of the night.

We weren’t horrible parents for taking Aiden and Livi to the drive-in as infants, no more than those parents are. We were better parents because we could relax and enjoy each other while making sure they were both happy and safe.

Can we now please stop judging one another and focus on supporting a community that has suffered a tragedy?

Month of May in Review

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Wow, the month of May most definitely got away from me. It was one thing after the next and now it’s over. My only post in May was a picture of my sweet princess so I thought it might be a good idea to post something to explain where in the world I was all month.

Let’s see… The first week of May was crazy. That was finals week and by NO means was it easy. After a LOT of hard work and non-stop studying I was able to achieve a 3.500 GPA this semester (and I was only about 5 points on the final away from an even better grade in pharmacology!), which I am pleased with.

My family made a lot of sacrifices to help make that possible but now I am OFF for the summer. Only one more year of school left and I should have my Associate of Science in Nursing. That will make me eligible to take the RN licensing exam. Only ONE more year. Wow. I can’t even begin to say how much I’m looking forward to that.

After finals were over Gabe and I went to celebrate with some of my awesome nursing school friends and we had a fabulous time. See!

Once the semester was complete it was time to get back to the business of getting my house cleaned up, as well as getting ready for some yard sales. I definitely didn’t have time for all those kinds of things while classes were going on.

The week after finals was Mother’s Day. Gabe and the kiddos made it special for me. Gabe told the kids that he “got mommy a surprise” on that Friday and that was too much of a secret for them to be able to hold inside. So my sweet presents came a couple of days early.

Gabe did an awesome job picking out a “Nurse” mug for me and a Willow Tree candle holder. Aiden was able to sign the card and Livi put some scribbles, which could not have made me happier. I got to spend Mother’s Day with my wonderful mother-in-law at church and the afternoon with my grandma and two aunts. My grandma and two aunts helped raise me. I wouldn’t be who I am without them. My mother-in-law is truly my friend and because of her I have Gabe and everything I love now. I am beyond blessed to have these women in my life and there’s no one else I would have wanted to spend that day with.

My “secret sister” at church also made Mother’s Day special for me with this:

I love carnations and these lasted for almost two weeks, looking gorgeous the entire time. I would say I still have the balloon but Livi usurped that and I think it’s now in her bedroom. 🙂

The following weekend was our first yard sale of the season and of course it was HOT. I always pick hot days for yard sales. My awesome friend, Kim, helped me out and we were able to unload quite a bit of stuff. There was still stuff left over so I had another sale the following Friday. It was even HOTTER. This time Livi was my assistant and we made a good day out of it. I still have a few big things left that are now on Craigslist and will hopefully soon be headed off to good homes.

That same day, Friday May 25th, was my sweet husband’s birthday. Gabe isn’t a huge fan of his birthday but I am. It means I’ve gotten another year with him and for that I am endlessly thankful. We didn’t do a lot on his actual birthday but the following night we had a bbq with a house full of friends and family. Gabe asked for an ice cream cake so you better believe that’s what he got. 🙂

We wanted to do a big bonfire but the weather did NOT cooperate and it was again HOT. We still had a fabulous time and celebrated the man I love. Isn’t he cute (even if the kiddos weren’t terribly happy to stand there!)?

We partied on Sunday with my family and again on Monday with Gabe’s family. We had a wonderful Memorial Day spending time together and enjoying the kiddos.

May wasn’t quite over yet though. Last night my baby boy graduated from preschool! They had a sweet little ceremony and he even got to read! If you watch the video (it’s only 16 seconds long) you can definitely hear one proud momma after his reading is over. Yep, I couldn’t help myself. Sorry for the quality, I took it with my phone.

I got this one as they were doing a little march around and of course my son’s hat is on sideways and he’s blurry on the bottom half from moving but he couldn’t be happier and I love it.

So yeah, May was BUSY to say the least. I’d say June will be less stressful in terms of obligations but not in terms of things to get done. I’m looking for at least a part-time job and of course the kids and I are going to make the most of this summer while I’m out of school. Oh and this blog will absolutely be a priority.

Thanks for catching up on May with me – see you sooner rather than later! 🙂

Why The Radio Silence??

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I am looking down the barrel of final’s week and it is kicking my butt.  I am buried in things like this:

Chemistry.  Blech.  I absolutely hate chemistry.  I will try to avoid anything in my nursing career that makes me have to break things down to their molecular formulas.  I say that with all seriousness.

This is Med-Surg.  I think my binder may explode if I try to add anything more to it.  Each one of the things in that binder might possibly be on the final.  My head aches just thinking about it.

And finally…

My Pharmacology review.  These are the kinds of things I need to go over before Friday.  My eyes start to cross every time I look at these papers.  I do very much care about medications and knowing what they do so that I can be the best (and safest!) nurse possible for my patients one day.  I get a bit nauseous when I think about trying to get it all out on to a test paper though.

So this is what I have been doing and why I haven’t been giving this blog the proper attention.  Hopefully after this week I will be back and definitely getting ready for more summer fashions and fabulous deals!